Making space for love to find you

So she dumped you.  When exactly?  A week ago, a few months ago, a year ago?  Single life is great, isn’t it?  You get to do whatever you want, with nobody nagging at you all day long to take out the trash.  You get to go out drinking and hunting for pussy.  But what happens? You go out on the hunt and maybe score.  It’s all over and done with the next day and that night you do it all over again.  Just like most men you will tire of this after a while and begin to yearn for the days when you had a regular thing going.  

So how do you make space for a new love interest to find you?

Let’s face it, since becoming single you have most likely let your house fall into ruin.  Take a good long look around the house… is this the kind of place she would ever want to visit for any length of time?  If you’re honest with yourself the answer is probably no. It’s time to start cleaning.  Put the partying and the hunt for pussy on hold and grab some rubber gloves and cleaning supplies and get to work.  The idea here is to do a very deep clean of everything.  When you’re finished the house should look like it is brand new. Dump everything you need to dump and clear out plenty of space by bringing your unwanted things to your local charity shop. It's time to start cleaning. Click To Tweet Is the house all clean now?  Great… but you’re not finished just yet.  Because you are looking for a long term love interest it’s time to make some space for her by clearing out one half of the wardrobe for her clothes and adding an extra space at the dinner table in your bachelor pad. The idea with all this is to send a powerful signal into the Universe that you are ready for the long term thing again.  

Give up the hunt

You have most likely been picking up chicks in the pub or club, right?  What happens?  You bring them home or go to their place and have a great time.  And that’s usually it.  Maybe you meet up with her a few more times but nothing ever comes of it. In case you haven’t figured it out yet, the only thing you get from the pub or club is a one-night-stand.  The best place to pick up a chick for something more long term and meaningful is everywhere but the pub or the club. One of the best possible places to meet a new bird is the shopping center or grocery store. As always, play it cool and happy hunting… no wait, don’t hunt, let it all happen naturally.